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January 7, 2013

That's Not How Twitter Works (For Me)


Two years ago, I snuck Twitter into a training. It was supposed to be about paperless math, but I wanted to show people the "power of Twitter" and so I said, "This is awesome. this right here is the ultimate P.D."

I then tweeted out, "Hey, I'm showing how Twitter works. Please reply and tell me where you are from."

It worked. Though I had less than a thousand followers, I had a steady stream of replies. "See, that's my PLN. It's global. This is my community where I share ideas. I can ask a question and get an idea just about any time."

I presented Twitter like a really fancy human search engine and not the quirky place where I've found community.

The problem is that I didn't share any ideas in the moment. I didn't joke around. I didn't make up a hashtag. I was a professional version of myself that is almost never true of me on Twitter. I showed them how Twitter works rather than why I love interacting on it. I showed them a tool rather than giving them a glimpse of the place that I go - or better yet, letting them get to know the people I've met.

It's a bit like saying, "I'm a member of an amazing church. It has a great feel and a supportive community. I've made some amazing friends. Now, I want to show you how people hold hymnals and where we place our little mini-shot-glasses full of grape juice."

Not only that, I now realize that I didn't tell them the real experience of Twitter. The truth is that, like a church, it is uncomfortable at first. People are using hashtags (might as well be speaking in tongues) and they're talking about chats and they're using the RT symbol and the MT symbol and asking for DM's.

Twitter is also a little standoffish at first. I don't think people intend for it to be this way, but most people when they start out tweet into a void and wait in awkward silence. If they're bold enough to jump into a conversation, they face a challenge of meeting new people. There is a sense of the "inner circle."

Pretty soon, I'll be talking about "how to use social media" with a group of educators. But I don't want to talk about how to use it. I want to tell them about the people. I want to share the power of the community. But I also want to be honest about it. I want them to know that it takes time to feel a sense of belonging. It isn't simply a tool someone uses for professional development. It's a place for sharing ideas and engaging in meaningful conversation.


Photo Credit: by chada - It was awhile ago, but it still makes me smile. Love their response to Westboro Baptist Church.

9 comments:

  1. John,

    I really like your last two paragraphs. Completely articulates my experience. Thanks for being part of my community.

    Don

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  2. I agree with John. Same. You have conveyed it well.

    Steve @mrhsie

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  3. Summarized more succinctly:

    Nobody fell in love with "The Office" for the filing cabinets.

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  4. Hi John

    Thanks for your lovely reminder of the fact that we still place enormous value in the construct of quality human interaction - it serves our affiliation need and reflects our humanity. In Newcastle, Australia, we have a vibrant twitter community which has had to deal with some of the more poignant reminders of just how complex the essence of connectedness can become. A year or so ago, I wrote this when we lost one of our own.
    I hope you enjoy the connection;

    http://eduleader.org/pitp/?p=163

    Cheers

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    1. Thanks for sharing the link. I'll go check it out.

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  5. Sometimes I get annoyed when I read of people's fears that we're becoming a society of individuals lost in all of our individual digital worlds. Totally wrong for all the reasons you so articulately have written (as usual). My "digital" friends and colleagues such as you and all the others yet not met that help me in topics of my choice / need AND often in topics they help me discover are so important to my lifelong learning and my enriched personal life.

    Interactions such as email and Facebook, etc. can and do offer that opportunity to share quickly a personal thought. But as my father always told us, "you don't get something for nothing." The live connection is not there and thus the sender must consider the hidden body language / vocal intonations and the receiver needs to explore possible "huhs" or ignore them if out of character. AND, of course, we do need to cherish the visits and the phone conversations - even live video these days!

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    1. It's a really mixed thing. I see pros and cons to digital interaction.

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